Tell her the

TRUTH! -Genie of the lamp.
Aladdin learned his lesson, lies catch up with you. Lying may seem to be the right way to get you what you want, but in the end, it ruins your chances.

Sure, there are a lot of times when people lie and never get caught. Say, with cheating. Even if they never get caught, if they aren't honest with their significant other about what happened then they have a relationship based on (pardon my french) jack shit. Relationships have a constant exchange of trust. Lying breaks that trust. People SHOULD care that holding back that information does in fact make your relationship mean a hell of a lot less. But they don't. Some people can have repeated affairs and not feel an ounce of guilt.

And why do they have these repeated affairs? Well... their relationship can't be too strong if they are seeking attention elsewhere. Some would argue it's a biological want to be with as many people as you can if you're a guy, to repopulate. Women don't have that luxury excuse since they don't have time to fuck everything fuckable when they have to have babies.

Maybe I'm traditional. Maybe I'm full of fantasy. But I believe that you shouldn't lie and you shouldn't cheat. Have I done it before? Yes. I gave into the moment. However I did immediately end my relationship the next day because I knew that if I cheat, I'm not being fulfilled in the relationship. Sure, people can cheat and be honest about it and forgive and forget. They can grow stronger. I personally can't move past that disrespect, and I feel awful I did that to people I cared about in the past.

But honestly, if you love someone... Truly love them, have their best interests at heart... You don't do them that kind of disrespect. You don't act selfish at their expense. You don't cheat.

I look at the past circumstances where I cheated. We both didn't respect each other, and so... we didn't really love each other. We pretended we did. What was that worth?





Nothing.